Bondage and domination go hand in hand for many who choose to live this particular  lifestyle. It does not have to happen to have a domination session, but for many people, this is all a part of it. On the other hand, many couples experiment and play around with bondage but do not actually have a sexually dominating lifestyle.

Bondage can be either light or heavy, depending on the preferences of the couple. A couple of friends of mine had not really delved very far into this sort of thing but decided to give bondage and domination a try one night. He was told to lie on his back on the bed after stripping, while she took some velvet drapery cord and tied his wrists and ankles to the bedposts. He looked a bit like a human shaped X lying there.

When he was tied up nice and tight, she stood at the foot of the bed and took off her clothes, teasing him as she did so. Then she got on the bed with him and started to give him an all over the body tongue bath but he was unable to touch her no matter how much he begged. This particular bondage and domination scene was so hot that he actually came without her touching his cock at all. He just shot his load right into the air.

That sounded pretty hot to me but this is a couple who is pretty much ordinary in their sexual lives so it was probably really exciting to try something so different from what they usually do. She even admitted that it is something that they now do periodically switching out who gets to be the dominant one. This apparently really adds to their already pretty decent sexual encounters.

Bondage and domination are not required to be performed together, but if someone is into being tied up and rendered helpless during sex, it’s usually a part of the entire session. Many people find it quite erotic to be restrained and unable to do anything such as touch their partner while they are being touched and licked or whatever other delicious things can be done to a helpless partner. Some of these images really get those cocks standing up and those pussy juices flowing. Just imagine what it may do when it is a reality instead of just a fantasy.

One piece of advice: Start out slow and easy if you’re a novice. Work into what you may enjoy.

Image provided by Stinkie Pinkie via Flickr.